I'm Spanish, from a small city in southern Spain, living in London since 2014. I believe in spiritual warfare. My podcast was born from watching men here in London who were deeply broken behind their hardest edges; instead of building walls, I chose to build bridges — to look closer, understand.

I believe in second chances when there's real willingness to change. Professionally, I went from Law in Spain, to Digital Marketing in London, to now training as a counsellor, studying Counselling and Psychotherapy.

English isn't my first language, so I'll probably say something silly along the way — I don't say that as an apology, it's just part of who I am.

I'm here to walk alongside you and sit with you. I'd love to hear what you'd like to listen to on my show.

Find me here!: delcantoromero@gmail.com

 

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7 days ago

4 min

In this episode, we explore the silent toll of modern individualism. What does it really cost to "do it all on your own"? We dive into how society's glorification of independence and self-reliance has led to widespread disconnection, loneliness, and a mental health crisis—especially among men.
We challenge the illusion of strength through solitude and uncover the deep human need for connection, community, and authenticity. From the false comfort of modern distractions to the sacred power of being truly seen by another, this episode invites you to step down from isolation and return to what makes us truly human.
If you're seeking real talk on emotional wellbeing, vulnerability, masculinity, and the power of relationships—this is for you.
Elena
#Disconnected#LonelinessAwareness#SilentStruggles#MentalHealthMatters#YouAreNotAlone#BreakingIsolation#EmotionalIsolation#ReachOut#ConnectionMatters#EndLoneliness#HealingTogether#MentalWellness#AloneButNotLonely#SocialConnection#SupportAndCare
 
 

7 days ago

4 min

7 days ago

6 min

Feeling stuck or unmotivated? Maybe what you're missing isn't more time or energy, it's purpose.In this episode, I talk about why having a clear sense of purpose is key to living with focus, discipline, and real fulfillment. It's not just about work or success, it's about meaning. Let’s stop surviving and start living with intention.
🎧 Listen now & let’s reflect together.
Elena
#PurposeDriven #DisciplineEqualsFreedom #MentalClarity #LiveWithIntention #PodcastForMen #LifeWithMeaning #SelfGrowth #EmotionalWellbeing #MasculinityWithHeart

7 days ago

6 min

Oct 27, 2026

7 min

When was the last time you felt like you mattered?
I’m Elena, and in this episode I talk to you about purpose: why we can’t live without it, and what happens when we lose it. Through the story of Viktor Frankl, I want to show you that losing what defined you can be the start of finding who you really are.
Write to me at delcantoromero@gmail.com or leave me a comment. I read every message.
You matter. Your story isn’t over.
Elena x
 

Oct 27, 2026

7 min

Oct 21, 2026

10 min

What Hurt You Happened Alone. What Heals You Can’t.
You learned not to need anyone. It kept you safe. Now it’s keeping you lonely.
In this episode, We explore how complex trauma isolates men, why anger, fear and sadness need a voice but can’t heal you on their own, and why real healing happens in relationship, through love and joy. Plus, small steps to let one person a little closer this week.
For the Man Shaped by Struggles: a podcast for men who carry more than they say.
Elena x
 
#ComplexTrauma #MensMentalHealth #MaleLoneliness #EmotionalHealing #AngerInMen #HealthyMasculinity #FaithAndHealing #TraumaHealing #MenWhoStruggle #ForTheManShapedByStruggles #Menmentalhealth #Men

Oct 21, 2026

10 min

Oct 17, 2026

10 min

You’ve never had a girlfriend. And you’ve stopped telling people, because every time someone asks, it feels like a verdict.
You’re not unlovable. You’re unpractised. And you’re not alone: nearly half of Gen Z men had no relationship as teenagers, and more young men than ever have stopped trying.
The loneliness, the fear of rejection, and the shame you’ve never said out loud.
If this is you, write to me. I read every message.
For the Man Shaped by Struggles — a space for men who carry more than they say.
Elena x
 
bystruggles.com
#MaleLoneliness #NeverHadAGirlfriend #GenZMen #FearOfRejection #MensMentalHealth #SingleMen #Dating #SelfWorth #Connection #Resilience

Oct 17, 2026

10 min

Oct 7, 2026

13 min

You have a job, a family, people all around you. And you've never felt more alone.
Every night, the same question: am I good enough?
Loneliness is quietly killing men in their fifties. They are now among those most at risk of suicide, and almost no one sees it coming. Because you were taught to provide, to hold it together, to never say "I'm not okay." So you stay silent, until the silence becomes the danger.
 
This episode is for you if you've been carrying it alone for too long. Or for him, if you love a man who is.
Tell me in the comments: when did someone last ask how you really are?
Struggling right now? Call Samaritans, free, 24/7: 116 123 (UK & Ireland).
🎧 bystruggles.com · 📸 @elena.del.canto
Elena x
#MenOver50 #MaleLoneliness #MensMentalHealth #SuicidePrevention #BreakTheSilence #ForTheManShapedByStruggles.
 

Oct 7, 2026

13 min